Traditional Chinese weddings are lavish affairs that are as much about the happy couple as they are about their respective families. These weddings feature symbolic aspects that focus on blessings of prosperity, abundance, and happiness for the couple from both family and friends. The entire wedding culture, including the Three Letters and Six Etiquettes, was officially formed during the Zhou Dynasty (1046 BC — 256 BC).
The wedding consists of two main parts: the Chinese tea ceremony which is intimate and only for both families, and the Chinese banquet (in Western weddings, it’s the reception) is for the guests of the couple and both families. The Guo Da Li is a formal proposal where the groom presents betrothal gifts symbolizing prosperity and good fortune to the bride’s parents.
The date of the wedding ceremony isn’t chosen by chance. Many couples consult with a fortune teller, Chinese monk, or Feng Shui master to choose an auspicious date to bring success to their marriage. The couple’s Chinese zodiac sign and birthday details will also play a big role in choosing a date that is the perfect fit.
The Chinese wedding invitation is typically red with gold lettering and bears the Double Happiness symbol. Inside, it’ll include dates for the wedding banquet, order of birth, and names of the bride, groom, and respective parents.
These are just a few of the many traditions and rituals that make Chinese weddings lavish and meaningful. From the betrothal to the tea ceremony, these traditions can be incorporated into your own nuptials.